A gentle self-assessment for neck, shoulder tension, and headaches
If you have kids, try this for a moment.
Touch their ears.
They’re soft. Squishy. Warm.
You can gently fold them like fresh gyoza dough.
Now check your own ears.
Do they move easily?
Or do they feel thick, stiff, or a bit “stuck”?
This simple comparison can tell you a lot about what’s happening in your body.
Many people go straight to stretching their neck or massaging their shoulders when they have headaches or stiffness.
But the ears are closely connected to:
the neck
the jaw
the upper shoulder area
and the fascial system that wraps everything together
When ear tissue loses softness and mobility, it’s often a sign that the surrounding fascia is under tension.
Think of your ear like gyoza dough.
Fresh gyoza ears:
Soft
Warm
Easy to gently fold
Skin moves easily
Dry or frozen gyoza ears:
Thick or hard
Less movement
Feels “stuck” when touched
Sometimes sensitive or uncomfortable
You can also try a shumai check:
Can your ear softly round and change shape, like a shrimp shumai?
There’s no “right” answer — just notice.
Also check:
👉 Is the right ear different from the left?
(It often is.)
Your ears are like dry clay.
If you pull hard, you don’t soften it — you tear it.
So when you touch your ears:
Use very small movements
Think 2–3 millimeters of skin movement
Slow, gentle, almost lazy
If it feels “good,” that’s usually a sign you’re on the right track.
When the ears and surrounding fascia soften:
the neck often follows
shoulder tension can reduce
headaches may ease without aggressive work
Sometimes relief doesn’t start where the pain is.
Before stretching your neck.
Before working on your shoulders.
Before pushing harder.
Check your ears.
Are they fresh gyoza… or frozen?
Small, gentle awareness can change more than force ever will.
Let us know what you think in the comments!
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